Eulogy for Dr. Cornett
By Sarina Roffé
President, National Cued Speech Association
December 30, 2002
Great men stand out in history because the are visionaries. Robert
F. Kennedy, a man of vision, said "Some men see things as they
are and say, 'Why?' I dream of things that never were and say, 'Why
not?'" Of course, Kennedy was talking in the 60s and he was
referring to the civil rights movement.
Like Kennedy, Dr. Cornett was a great man, and a man of vision.
His vision was that deaf children be able to read as well as hearing
children do so that they can achieve the same dreams and aspirations
in their lives.
Dr. Cornett didn't understand why deaf children weren't reading
as well as hearing children were. So Dr. Cornett said ‘why?’
to deaf educators. And in figuring out the ‘why not?’
of the literacy problems that pervade deaf education, Dr. Cornett
formulated a vision that deaf children would read as well as hearing
children do.
The combination of his humanity, combined with his mother’s
influence and his mathematical mind worked together to help him
resolve the problem, how to break the barrier to deafness that prevented
deaf children from learning and accessing spoken language to the
point where they couldn't read well enough to enjoy it. In the process,
he performed a miracle. He invented Cued Speech, a miracle that
has affected tens of thousands of lives in the past 37 years all
over the globe as clearly as the invention of Braille affected blind
people.
The word miracle is generally reserved for acts of God - to acts
such as the parting of the Red Sea so the Hebrew slaves fleeing
the wrath of the Egyptian Pharoah could escape with Moses as their
leader. I say to you, the invention of Cued Speech was nothing short
of a miracle. Ask any family who used Cued Speech anywhere in the
world and they will say that the introduction and continued use
of Cued Speech allowed their deaf children to achieve as hearing
children do.
Ask Judy Weiss, the mother of Louis, who said “For our family,
the name “Dr. Cornett” is synonymous with the word “miracle.”
Dr. Cornett and his ingenious invention “Cued Speech”
were and still are the answer to our families’ prayers. Twenty-three
years ago, our 10-month-old son became deaf from meningitis and
deaf educators told us that he would never be able to do as well
as his hearing brother academically and we needed to lower our expectations
of his abilities. Like many other families with deaf children who
decided to use Dr. Cornett’s wonderful system, our deaf child
excelled and enjoyed languages - French, Spanish and, of course,
English. Dr. Cornett continued to personally follow our son’s
progress and counseled our different concerns as they arose. Our
son went on to graduate from Arizona State University and is married
and working in Las Vegas. We will be forever grateful to this wonderful
man and his incredible gift to our family.
Marie-Claire and Bruno Zimmerman of Geneva, Switzerland wrote me
an email saying “Our deaf son Adrien just turned 14; he speaks
French well, and English and German passably. He has an interest
and even a passion for languages he would certainly never have developed
without the tool invented by Dr Cornett.”
From Sandy Mosetick, mother of Rachel in Chicago, Ill. “Dr.
Cornett's vision for what our deaf children are capable of and his
dedication to making it a reality changed the course of my daughter's
life in ways that can only be called a miracle.”
These are but a few of the scores of stories of how Dr. Cornett
touched us. My own son Simon was introduced to Cued Speech when
he was 3 ½. Although he was diagnosed early, he was already
two years language delayed. I met Dr. Cornett and he gave me hope
for myson's future, a hope that I desperately needed and that I
thought impossible. During the next two years, I cued and I watched
the miracle of language unfold in my child. I watched the wheels
spin in his mind as he learned about all the things preschoolers
learn - animals, numbers, colors, textures, feelings, foods and
people. I watched him put sentences together. By 5 ½, Simon
had the language of a six year old and in the process, I saw the
miracle happening, a miracle that no one would have believed could
happen.
Simon, Rachel, Adrien and Louis and all the deaf cuers around the
globe are examples of the miracle that happened in our lives. We
as the recipients of the miracle, are forever thankful for Dr. Cornett
but I am thankful to God for Dr. Cornett.
To the family of R. Orin Cornett, to the Cued Speech community,
to friends and relatives, I am sure it is no surprise to hear that
Dr. Cornett was an exceptional person. He was full of humor, yet
he had humility. He was a taskmaster, yet he motivated us to achieve
higher standards. He was a workaholic, never taking vacations, yet
his work was full of accomplishment and it filled him with pride.
It could not have been easy for his wife Lorene, whom many of us
got to know well. She was always there for him, and at a moment’s
notice would be serving dinner to 6 or 8 surprise guests. Dr. Cornett
was a genius, yet he always wanted to learn more. He counseled an
endless number of parents. He was always available, always accessible,
yet he always wanted to learn from us. He thrived on debate, and
there were many arguments in those early years about the applications
of Cueing.
In the words of Barbara LeBlanc of Louisiana, “No new idea
was ever rejected or discouraged by Dr. Cornett. He had the foresight
to believe in people and to respect and appreciate new ideas from
people who could make a difference. Dr. Cornett's presence will
be missed, but his imprint on deaf education and the lives of the
people he touched will forever be so much better.”
He was open minded and easy to talk to, and he made people feel
worthwhile, like they had potential. It is no coincidence that the
women who worked for him at Gallaudet each went on to obtain a degree
in higher education. He had high expectations of everyone around
him, yet it was those expectations that helped the deaf cueing children
to achieve, that pushed the parents. He demanded that each of his
children earn a Ph.D., no small achievement for the average person,
but an accomplishment expected of each of you as if it was as easy
as brushing your teeth.
At a Jewish Passover Seder, we sing a song called Dayenu, which
is the Hebrew word for “enough!” Of course, we are singing
about the plagues on Egypt as Moses tried to free the Hebrew slaves
from the Egyptian Pharoah. One would have thought that inventing
Cued Speech was ‘Dayenu’ but it was not enough to fulfill
Dr. Cornett’s vision.
Once he developed the system, he had to sell it to parents and
to the world of deaf educators. He traveled the world and wrote
papers. His ability to explain his vision and to get people to use
it was crucial to its success. Like a baby that needs a mother’s
nurturing, Dr. Cornett nursed his baby through all the typical growing
aches and pains a child has, through adolescence until it became
an adult. And even then, it was not ‘Dayenu.’
He retired from Gallaudet and even when he was in ill health Dr.
Cornett still came to cue camps and to NCSA board meetings and he
still counseled parents about using Cued Speech. In seeing the results
of his life’s work and the effect it had on the quality of
life for deaf people who used it, I think Dr. Cornett was gratified
that his work had reached higher goals than he initially predicted.
Dr. Cornett was gratified to see Cued Speech used all over the world
and to see the multitude of prelingually profoundly deaf children
grow into successful, independent adults with higher level thinking
skills who became full members of both the hearing and deaf culture
communities.
To Robert, Stan and Linda, Dr. Cornett’s children, and to
his grandchildren, Jane, Linda and Emily, each of us here today
thanks you for sharing Dr. Cornett with us. You made a sacrifice,
albeit unknowingly, in sharing your father with the world. It could
not have been easy to watch your father bounce all over the world
talking about Cued Speech. But it is a sacrifice that we in the
Cued Speech community will be forever grateful for.
In the words of Deborah and David Libby, parents of Joshua, Dr.
Cornett “leaves the world a better place! My son’s accomplishments
and the profound joy we have experienced as a family happened because
a man saw a need, cared enough to find a solution and devoted the
better part of his life helping to make young people's potentials
bloom and grow.”
Like Kennedy, Dr. Cornett had a vision, but instead of questioning,
he acted. It is a testament to his legacy that so many deaf adult
cuers are here today. The sages say that he who saves a person saves
a generation. While Dr. Cornett did not physically save a life,
he is a true hero because with Cued Speech, Dr. Cornett planted
the seeds for future generations of deaf children. The profound
impact Dr. Cornett had on the world because of the miracle he developed
and nurtured - Cued Speech - can never be matched.
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